Why Narcissists Fight for Custody (And It’s Not About the Kids)
He’s the perfect dad. He’s always posting pictures on social media of himself with the kids at sports games, splash pads, and swings at the playground. He’s the fun dad everyone loves to be around. Or so it looks like from the outside. Behind the...
The Secrets Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know (That You Can Use to Win!)
Hi, I’m Rebecca Zung — and if you’ve been dealing with a narcissist, especially in a negotiation or legal battle, then you’re in the right place. I’ve spent over 20 years as an attorney and narcissist negotiation expert, and I’ve seen it all. The manipulation,...
How to Handle a “Nice-Guy” Narcissist
The nice guy: he’s charming, generous, and humble. You notice he even sometimes puts himself down in favor of others. He’s a little shy but quick to show empathy for others. You’re inexplicably drawn to him. But once you’re in deeper, red flags...
How Introverts Should Deal with a Narcissistic Ex-Spouse
If you’re an introvert, you’re familiar with the need to get away from people and conversations for a while. You need to recharge on your own. Coming home from a party, even one where you had a great time, can feel like a relief. But when you’re...
Resolving Workplace Conflict with Healthy Communication
Some people are lucky enough to have their dream job. They love what they do, they love their coworkers, they love their office. Everyone gets along wonderfully. But the reality for many of us, even if we love our jobs, is that conflict will arise in the workplace at...
Is Your Wife a Narcissist?
Every marriage has its ups and downs, but being married to a narcissist is a whole different ball game. The mistrust, gaslighting, and love bombing followed by neglect all send you on an emotional roller coaster—one where you feel like you can never get off. This...
Do Narcissists Know What They Are?
If you’ve ever interacted with a narcissist, you’ve probably wondered if they know they’re a narcissist. Are they aware of the damage they cause? Or are they oblivious to their own toxic behaviors? Trying to make sense of a narcissist’s behavior can send you into a...
Flying Monkeys: How Narcissists Use Others to Control You
Just hearing the word “narcissist” leaves an uneasy feeling hanging thick in the air like a noxious gas. Narcissists use every trick in the book to manipulate, control, and isolate their victims. And, like a poisonous gas, they spread their tendrils of toxicity far...