#1 – How Their Own Behavior Ends Up Hurting Them in The Long Run
They’re very short sighted in how they behave. They lie all the time. They are very impulsive. They’re always in the moment about how they behave. They’re constantly gaslighting and using parts of truth to sort of manipulate things and talk to people and manipulate situations. That is why you can use all of that for great leverage and strategies. Their behavior does end up hurting them in the long run. They lie about everything. They lie about even things that are very easily verifiable even things that they don’t need to lie about. They leave a massive path of destruction and people do see that they lie. They don’t see how their behavior ends up hurting them in the long run.
#2 – You Dropping Your Anger
They expect you to constantly push back because you normally have developed like a dance with them where you are triggered. They like that. You’re conditioned. You take the bait. They get their supply from that, and they are used to that. When you stop taking the bait and you are no longer triggered by them and you are no longer angry they are taken aback by that and they do not see that coming. They’re not sure what to do with that and they definitely don’t see that coming at all. When you change your behavior, they’re not sure what to do with that. Anytime you change up your behavior and drop your anger, they do not see that coming.
#3 – You Forgiving Them
That totally stops them in their tracks and, by the way, it is the best thing for you. That’s another whole conversation but I’m telling you that you can get to that point and that’s the best thing for you.
#4 – Healthy Boundaries
When you are changing the game and you are saying that you are no longer allowing certain things and saying that this is no longer how it is going to look for you and that the way it had been established is no longer the game, they’re not ready for that. They will not be happy about it but there are certain things that you need to just stop doing and stop thinking that they are going to change and stop thinking things are going to be different and stop going back to them and stop thinking that you’re going to get closure or stop thinking that they’re going to see things in a certain way because that is not ever going to happen. You just have to come to the conclusion that certain things about narcissists are just never going to change and that it is time for you to just move on.
#5 – You Leaving
For whatever reason, they are under this delusion that you are just going to stay and that you are just going to keep coming back and you’re just going to continue with this craziness. It is definitely the best thing for you to leave.
You leaving, healthy boundaries, forgiveness, no more anger, all of those things are definitely the best things for you but they won’t see any of that coming nor will they see how their behavior hurts them in the long run.
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