Hey there SLAYers! Today, I want to dive into a topic that many of us encounter but may not fully understand – when a narcissist feels threatened in negotiations. By decoding these behaviors, you can empower yourself in any negotiation, whether it’s professional or personal.
Over-Aggressiveness: A Telltale Sign
At their core, narcissists feel empty inside, despite their outward confidence. They tie their self-worth to their sense of superiority and control. When they sense their dominance slipping, they react with aggression and defensiveness. It’s almost like they throw a tantrum to re-establish their dominance. This behavior can backfire, causing them to make mistakes and reveal their vulnerability.
Manipulation and Diversion Tactics
One of the hallmarks of narcissistic behavior is manipulation. They divert attention from their wrongdoings and evade responsibility by making you question your perspective. If caught in a lie, instead of admitting it, they’ll shift the conversation, claiming you misunderstood or misheard them. They’re masters at turning the tables and making themselves the victim.
The Need for Validation and Reassurance
Narcissists may project confidence, but beneath that exterior lies an insatiable need for validation. They constantly seek compliments and reassurance to prop up their fragile self-image. Even minor accomplishments are flaunted as if they’ve achieved world-changing feats. They’ll drop comments, hoping to hear how great they are.
Avoidance and Complete Withdrawal
When narcissists can’t control the narrative and fear exposure, they might resort to avoidance or complete withdrawal. They could ghost you, stop talking, or resort to silent treatment as a punishment or manipulation tactic. They may hope that you’ll come crawling back, apologizing for treating them poorly.
In conclusion, understanding these behaviors can empower you when dealing with narcissists. Instead of seeking revenge, focus on self-care, setting boundaries, and seeking therapy or support. Remember, knowledge is power, and you have the strength to negotiate your best life.
Remember, today is a great day to start negotiating your best life. You have the power, and they only win if you give in.
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