How to Use Your Divorce As An Opportunity for a New Life

1.   Forgiveness – forgiveness is for YOU and not for anyone else – the other person doesn’t even need to know that you’ve forgiven them.  But you don’t want to be drinking poison on a daily basis and expecting the other person to feel the results.

2.   Finding Your Passion – find something that you are excited about and think forward about that.  Dedicate your life and yourself to it – whatever it is.

3.   Forget the Past.   Focus on the Future.   Do not, I repeat, do not dwell on the past – or what could have been – or the wrongs that have been done to you – or whether someone got a better deal than you – or whatever it is that you cannot change anyway.   You can change the course of your life now – this moment.   Focus on that.   Decide what it is that you want and create that.   Anything else is a waste of the precious little amount of time you have on this planet.

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Remember you’re just one step away from your new life.   Together, we’ve got this.

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