Negotiate with a Narcissist
Every relationship with a narcissist begins the same way. If they’re a partner, they’ll shower you with flowers and chocolate. A boss might constantly praise you for your work accomplishments. A friend might text you all day long and laugh at all your jokes.
No matter the relationship, things are going well-until suddenly, they aren’t. The flowers and texts stop. The boss’s door stays shut. You’re hurt and confused.
Then, the smear campaign begins. Suddenly, you’re a liar, a drinker, or a psychopath. You may or may not know what you did to warrant these attacks, but you certainly know you don’t deserve them.
All your attempts at negotiating seem to fall on deaf ears. You’ve begged, you’ve played nice, you’ve been firm-nothing works. You feel stuck. Whether it’s approval on a work project or a good custody arrangement, you’re completely unable to get what you want.
It’s time to face the facts: you’re dealing with a stone-cold narcissist. The negotiation tactics you would use on anyone else will never work on a narcissist. Even if you hire an attorney, narcissists will do everything they can to stretch out the court process, racking up fees and bleeding you dry.
So How Do I Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win?
The secret to winning a negotiation with a narcissist doesn’t lie in begging, being firm, offering kindness, or any other tactic you’ve tried. To beat a narcissist, you have to understand the way they think and how to use their thought processes against them. And to do that, you must be ready to take matters into your own hands.
You’ll need to know about narcissistic supply. Because all narcissists have very low self-esteem, they’re on a constant search to fill their empty self-worth tanks from outside sources. They get that from exploiting others to get compliments and control.
A narcissist’s interactions with others aren’t their highest grade of supply, though. Their reputation is their gold standard. They prioritize building up a spotless reputation for the outside world.
When you understand the particular brand of narcissism you’re dealing with, you can learn about the ways they fill their self-esteem and exploit you. You can then create a strategy to turn their tactics around and use them as leverage.
But how do you do all that? Rebecca Zung’s course, SLAY Your Negotiation with a Narcissist, is your guidebook. This course helps you understand how the narcissist in your life operates and create strategies to negotiate with them and win.
As a leading high-net-worth divorce litigation attorney, Rebecca learned in the trenches how to negotiate with narcissists. She represented hundreds of cases involving narcissists and high-conflict personalities and learned what they did and didn’t respond to.
The SLAY program is based on Rebecca’s massive reservoir of knowledge. It teaches you everything you need to know about narcissists so you can turn the tables and get what you want out of negotiations.
SLAY Your Negotiation with a Narcissist
Rebecca Zung’s comprehensive course allows you to work through each module on your own timetable. Her program teaches you about narcissists’ desires and strategies. She instructs you on ethically turning their weaknesses and failings into leverage to get what you want. She shows you how to do this, all while convincing the narcissist they’ve won.
Rebecca Zung even shares tips on finding and vetting lawyers, documenting and compiling evidence, and anticipating their arguments so you can gain the upper hand. Her program will give you the confidence you need to take back your power.
Whether you want to learn how to handle a narcissistic boss, get your ideal custody arrangement, or deal with a narcissistic friend or colleague, SLAY Your Negotiation is the highest-value program of its kind.
Why Do I Need to Learn to Successfully Negotiate with Narcissists?
The adage “know thine enemy” rings true when it comes to narcissists. You know from experience that negotiating with one is much more complicated than negotiating with anyone else.
You need to know which kind of narcissist you’re dealing with so you can understand what motivates them. That’s why the SLAY program is crucial for learning how to negotiate with a narcissist. It’s a comprehensive guide to understanding narcissists and their tactics so you can reverse their strategies and beat them at their own game.
Which Type of Narcissist Am I Dealing With?
There are three main types of narcissists that Rebecca Zung teaches about: grandiose, covert, and malignant.
In addition to having a lack of empathy and needing to fill their narcissistic supply, each type also conducts a smear campaign when-in their minds-you move from being for them to being against them. The nature of these smear campaigns, and the way the narcissist fills his or her supply, are two key indicators of which type of narcissist you are dealing with.
You’ll learn about each type in the SLAY program so you can identify what you’re up against. You’ll then learn about the narcissist’s strategies and the best methods for disarming them.
How Does SLAY Help Me Build Evidence?
From the sly covert narcissist to the sinister malignant narcissist, one thing remains the same: negotiating with a narcissist of any type feels next to impossible. To convince a judge-or even the narcissist themselves-of your case, you need to build evidence.
An attorney is excellent for presenting your case, but they can’t help you gather all of the facts. You’re the one with firsthand experience of the narcissistic abuse you’ve endured. You have the evidence, but it can feel overwhelming to compile it and present it to the attorney.
SLAY Your Negotiation helps you in every stage. In addition to being your personal negotiation coach, Rebecca Zung includes a toolkit in her program to help you succeed. Her Truth Tracker Timeline, Documentation Module, reference guides, and templates assist you in compiling and presenting all your evidence to take the narcissist down.
One of the best aspects of the SLAY program is its cost-effectiveness. While you could ask your attorney to help you with all the documentation, time is money-the more time you spend consulting your lawyer, the more your legal bills pile up. And that’s exactly what the narcissist wants.
On the other hand, using the SLAY program could save you thousands of dollars in legal fees and ensure that you, as the victim with firsthand experience, have everything you need for negotiations.
How Does SLAY Help Me Find the Best Lawyer?
Not all lawyers are created equal. Sometimes, even the best lawyers don’t have experience dealing with narcissists. Their usual tactics won’t be nearly as effective against the narcissist you’re dealing with, so you need to step in and give them a hand.
You can do that with the Triple Threat Package included in the SLAY Your Negotiation program. This package is devoted to helping you find the best lawyer. It includes questions to ask when vetting attorneys and a packet on how to make your lawyer your ally.
With the SLAY program, you can not only find the best attorney for your situation but learn how to take full advantage of their expertise so you can successfully negotiate with a narcissist.
How Will SLAY Help Me Prepare for Negotiations?
An amazing aspect of Rebecca Zung’s SLAY Your Negotiation with a Narcissist program is that it’s comprehensive and helpful for all situations.
You may be at the end of your rope in the workplace and wondering how to deal with a narcissistic boss. You might be divorcing a narcissist and feeling all the weight of their toxicity in your custody negotiations. Or you could have a narcissistic business partner, like Rebecca herself once did.
No matter your situation, SLAY Your Negotiation is an invaluable program. Although you may not be able to consult Rebecca Zung directly for all your legal questions, her Negotiation GPT program is the next best thing.
The Negotiation GPT is an intuitive AI program that analyzes your documentation and situation and tells you what to anticipate from your narcissistic opponent during negotiations. It gives you personalized scripts to help you craft your responses and shares the psychological tactics a narcissist might use against you.
This program also gives you ideas of leverage for your negotiations—a crucial factor when negotiating with a narcissist. These pieces of leverage are personalized to you based on the evidence you’ve compiled. They’ll be a key factor in convincing the narcissist to back down.
You can use Rebecca Zung’s GPT to simulate negotiations, which will help you polish your strategy and build your confidence.
How Can SLAY Help Me After I’ve Finished the Course?
Negotiating with a narcissist can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted. You’ll need a support network to get back on your feet. And while those around you-friends, family, and therapists-will be a vital part of your rehabilitation, they don’t know firsthand what dealing with a narcissist is like.
However, there are many others out there who do. SLAY Your Negotiation with a Narcissist can continue to help you long after you’ve finished the course and ended negotiations. This program includes access to Rebecca Zung’s exclusive community of people who have survived and thrived in spite of experiencing the drama, trauma, and chaos caused by narcissists.
The members of this tight-knit community can be there whenever you need them to offer you hope and support. It’s just one more way Rebecca Zung’s programming helps people step into a new life of freedom, possibility, prosperity, and purpose.