Instead of losing your cool when the narcissist tries to stir up trouble, flip the script! Ask them, “Hey, what’s your motivation for doing that?” It’s like hitting the pause button on their little manipulation game. They might not show empathy back, but at least they’ll have a moment of self-reflection.
This one’s my personal favorite! Pretend you’re genuinely puzzled and ask, “What is it you’re trying to do?” It’s like watching them stumble as you expose their sneaky tactics. Priceless!
Instead of getting sucked into their endless conversations, be the bigger person and say, “Hey, would it be helpful if I just listened?” `Let them keep talking, and you might just get some juicy insights into their twisted mind.
Oh, this is a gem! Hit them with, “Can you explain what you were thinking when you said/did that?” Ha! It’s like throwing them off their game and making them think twice about their actions.
Time to play detective! Say, “You seem angry/upset/frustrated.” Oh, they won’t see that coming! You’re shif ting the focus and encouraging them to explore their emotions constructively.
Picture this – you repeat back what they said, like a parrot! “It sounds like what you’re asking is…” Watch their face go from smug to confused. You’re exposing their need for validation, and they won’t know what hit them!
Ready for a reality check? Try, “How do you feel when someone disagrees with your opinion?” Yep, let’s call them out on their defensiveness. Maybe they’ll get a glimpse of how they come across.
Throw them off balance with, “Are you trying to control the conversation?” BAM! They won’t know what to say. This is all about challenging their need for power and promoting healthier communication.
Time to flip the script! Ask, “How does this conversation help us both?” You’re promoting cooperation and showing them that it’s not just about their needs.
Listen up! Stand tall, maintain your self-worth, and don’t let anyone dim your light! Remember, you have immense value, and that’s why they attached themselves to you in the first place.